Hello Bill, System design is a choice from components.
You didnt mention which ML relay you use. Looks like the ML 7700.
I didnt install this with the REC prechargeV3. But install them with the older latching relay drivers from REC.
The ML 7700 needs a positve trigger signal. What I see in the REC manaul prechargeV3, is that the drawing shows a latching relay with 2 coils. The ML7000, is slightly different in operation as the latching relay in the drawing. The are many different latching relays!!
It could that the PREchargeV3, switch only the negative inside, and NOT the positive to the coil. Maybe RICK or others here on the forum knows. BUT you can easily check this yourself with a multi meter. Post it here, good info for others.
If the REC prechargeV3 switch internally the negative, then you could use a extra signal relay to convert the negative trigger, to positive trigger.
If you like to use blue sea relays, why not use the ML 7713/ML 7717, more easier to wire.
My personal choice is relays from the brand TBS(Netherlands), there RBS makes a nicer compact installation, together with there Tfuses and busbars.